Concept
Mine to work, not my fault
Two questions that are easy to collapse into one. If rules arrive from above as a matter of course, then a rule you did not choose, installed by conditions you did not set, is still yours to work and was never yours to answer for. Dropping the first is helplessness; dropping the second is self-blame.
Where it appears
Treated in
- Part Two — How to PracticeFinding Your Local RuleFour honest questions — loved, capable, needed, sustainable — and the overlap where a rule worth repeating actually lives.