Concept
The resistant partner
Changing your leg of a triangle changes what the two of you produce, but against someone invested in the previous outcome the change is met rather than accepted. The triangle still resolves; it resolves somewhere you didn't choose.
Where it appears
Treated in
- Part Two — How to PracticeReceivingSix things you can do with what arrives at you — fighting back, withdrawing, parley, doing nothing, withholding, blending — and the test that tells a stable standoff from ordinary avoidance.
- Part Five — The Standing ThirdsThe Dyad-KinNineteen two-person patterns, each one two Self-Kin meeting. Know any two of the three and the third follows, which means changing your own leg changes what the two of you make.